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dpenabill
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Posted: 16 Feb 2010 at 3:03am |
IslandGirl correctly identified "CBSA" as the "Canadian Border Services Agency."
See: http://www.cbsa.gc.ca/menu-eng.html They are the agency charged with responsibility for ensuring the security and prosperity of Canada by managing the access of people and goods to and from Canada. |
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Bureaucracy is what bureaucracy does, or When in doubt, follow the instructions. Otherwise, follow the instructions.
BTW: Not an expert, not a Can. lawyer, never worked in immigration |
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scylla
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I was going to leave this alone but I have to say something.
Thai bar girls get a bad rap unfairly. Many of them are from very small towns and have extremely limited opportunities for a good life. And as hard as it may be for some of us to believe, being a bar girl is in fact their only way out of a desperate, poor and dead end existance. They aren't bad people. Instead, they're normal people just like us who have had to make impossible choices. They are also human - and consequently they are just as capable of falling in love as the rest of us. As a Canadian-born female, Thai bar girls remind me how lucky I am to have the opportunities and life I have. It's something that none of us should take for granted. |
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rbenoit
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It would seem you have already made up your mind to do whatever it is you are or are not going to do. Your judgement has already been rendered and the gavel has dropped.
We should not be judging others by their past. I know many people who have met and married woman from foreign countries and sure there are a few that dont work out and there are many that do. Some may be a scam to land in this country and many are legitimate. It is not up to you or me or anyone else to interfere in the choices other people make. They will have to live with their decisions, good or bad. I still stand by my first comment. Perhaps with the exception of your children his relationship/choice of relationship is not your business. They are, after all, his children to so I doubt he would do anything that would endanger them.
Who's to say this as you claim "former bar girl" being given a chance at a normal life with a foreigner might end up being the best partner and future wife your ex could ever possibly imagine having. Heck, you and your ex didnt work out. Maybe they will.
You dont know. I dont know.
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Toronto girl
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Thank you Island Girl for answering my question, but I referring to someone else making a final reply
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IslandGirl
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CBSA = Canadian Border Services Agency
I stand by my post however
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Used to be known here as "feb7" - there's no doubt to my gender this way
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Toronto girl
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Also I still would like to know what a CBSA is if anyone knows. I think my views are clear and no futher reply is necessary, but if you would like the last kick at the cat go for it.... you know who you are :)
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Toronto girl
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This is getting interesting.....I do have proof, I would never have looked for advice if I didn't. I suspected what had happened in thailand and through many conversations my Ex told me the truth. I also have it is writting. You're right though, maybe whom ever I date could be bad to my children, but I will start out with getting to know him and not introduce him to my children until I have a very good understanding of this person. There is no way of protecting your children from everything unless you put them in a bubble. However when you have prior knowledge of someones history and that hisotry could affect their up bringing you just need to step in and protect them. Yes it is sad what goes on in third world countries. Many people who are lonely will turn to these places as they don't want to be alone and can't find someone in their own counrty. In some cases the men know that he is getting used for his money or she wants out of her country. he wants a young girl or any girl and she wants a better life. If both parties know that they are being used....then more power to them. My Ex however is a great man and I know if given some time he will find a great women with the same beliefs and same culture. I don't want him used or hurt. I've spoken to many men over a period of time who have been taken advantage by women from these countries and they are all very sad stories. They all thought it was true love until they brought them here. I just hope that my Ex and this women are not one of those satistics.
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rbenoit
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Who are you to asked not to be judged.
Since you are judging others you will also be judged.
Where is your proof this girl is a prostitute?
I doubt you have any and even if she is who are you to judge her. You dont know what its like to live in a 3rd world country in poverty. Maybe she has no choice and is a wonderful person with no choice.
Whose to say the next boyfriend you bring home isnt a child molester. You think it is tatooed on peoples faces who and what they are.
When you point the finger at others remember 3 fingers are pointing back at you.
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IslandGirl
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Actually, prostitution is legal in Canada
With that, IF he succeeded in sponsoring her to Canada AND he applied for/received visitation - then you take it up with the court at that time. However, unless there is a danger to the kids, you really have no say what he does with them on his time - just like, unless there is a danger to the kids, he can't tell you what to do/who to see when they are with you. Goose & gander situation The courts will tell you the same thing.
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Used to be known here as "feb7" - there's no doubt to my gender this way
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edmotonresident
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Those girls lure north american men just to access the country, then they kick them out once they are here, so let him taste this hell... then after, he'll seek your mercy
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